Hello There,

What if we don't need the calendar to turn in order to begin again?
What if life is inviting us, this moment, this day, to begin again?

Children understand this naturally. They spill, they cry, they stumble. They don't sit in shame or retreat into darkness. They feel fully, express completely, and then… they begin again. There's no story of failure. Just a natural, intrinsic return to presence.

We tend to forget this as we age. We make a mistake and suddenly we become it. We blame ourselves, beat ourselves up internally, and carry it like an identity.

Beginning again doesn't mean pretending we didn't fall. It means choosing not to stay there.

It means taking responsibility for how we show up without using the past, or a simple misstep, as proof that we're unworthy. From my experience, this is a kinder, saner way forward in our relationships and in our lives as a whole.

Wherever this finds you, in celebration, in struggle, in the in-between, it's never too late to begin again.

I recently had a meaningful conversation with my friend Jillian Turecki on her podcast, Jillian on Love. We talked about those moments that feel overwhelming, constricting, or painful, and what happens when we stop pushing them away and instead choose to bring them close.

In this short video, I share what I've learned about meeting those moments… and how doing so has changed the way I move through life. I invite you to watch below.

THIS WEEK’S INQUIRY

When you notice yourself slipping into self-judgment or heavy thoughts, pause.
Imagine meeting that moment as a child would.

Then ask yourself:

  • If a child I loved felt this way, what would I say to them?

  • What would it feel like to offer myself that same kindness?

  • What changes when I stop judging the darkness and simply stay present with it?

Let this be your practice of beginning again.

Love,
Sage Robbins 🪷

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